mulier mea: cf. Hor. Epod. 12.23 “magis quem diligeret mulier sua quam te” (of lovers); and mea puella of Lesbia in Catul. 2.1 and often.
[2] non si: see Catul. 69.3n.
[2] Iuppiter ipse petat: cf. Catul. 72.2; Pl. Cas. 323 “negavi enim ipsi me [Casinam uxorem] concessurum Iovi” ; Ov. Met. 7.801 “nec Iovis illa meo thalamos praeferret amori” .
[3-4] Cf. Soph. Frag. 741 “ὅρκους ἐγὼ γυναικὸς εἰς ὕδωρ γράφω” ; Plat. Phaedrus 276 “οὐκ ἄρα σπουδῇ αὐτὰ ἐν ὕδατι γράψει” , and frequent examples in the Greek; Aug. Civ. Dei 19.23 “magis poteris in aqua impressis litteris scribere … quam pollutae revoces impiae uxoris sensum” ; also Catul. 30.10n., and the epitaph of Keats, “Here lies one whose name was writ in water”.